In a community desirous of “more babies”, that means in general, society should support the idea of “more sex” – since, at least until now, more sex, means more babies.

Sex is a natural activity.

While for some, sex is less of a drive, for others, it’s their important reality. Hallmarks of such individuals might be having strong Mars in a chart, those with Scorpio stelliums, and similar.

By normalizing sex and those with a strong sex drive, we’ll lighten the burdens of guilt and shaming.

Granted some of this polarity is likely due to cultural repression – leading to extremes, even under the most pastoral/idyllic/utopian circumstances there will always be those with more intense needs.

Like China’s state-subsidized ‘lotus rooms’ where couples could go to neck (but then go out into the woods to have sex), our souk kingdom’s s$x venues are similar- but take things a step further.

Here they as often consummate it. ‘Cleanups’ cost extra.

The entrance to the Souk’s Sex Venue is ~nondescript- as while sex is important, it doesn’t need to draw attention to itself- except there are subliminal phallic symbols.

A ring of lilies surrounding a bubbling fountain look particularly graphic in early spring as their 2 cm plant being rise pushing up and through earth to become 6-8 inch dark red p*nises. That only lasts a few weeks though – so you’ll need other ‘suggestions’ too. I’m sure you can improvise.

Couples come together with stars in their eyes from respective bathing dressing areas. Perhaps they’ll like to wear fig leaves over their genitals – or togas.

Rooms are large with alcoves and low ceilings. There’s some privacy and yet you can almost see each other. Lights are dim and ambience is quiet.

There’s an area for slow intimate dancing. Some areas have mirrors so you can see yourself with your partner– within a context of others. Yes, mirrored bedrooms are for some still popular! Everyone looks vulnerable then. 

Being an area of public ‘orgy’, the sex venue is also a place of ‘learning’ for those less initiated. There’s a room with mud wrestling and in the summer wet t-shirt contests.

Let’s be real. A wo(e)-man/ wo(mb)-man really should have more than one partner before she fills her Vesica Pisces with a hu(e)-man baby! That is, she has sex before marriage- as it is assumed and encouraged for men to do now. There’ll be ‘deflowering’ parties.

People have different l’Ove-making styles- matching them will increase partner happiness. The only “rule” is – couples need to have visual contact with each other while involved (so no “doggie-style”) . Animals teach us plenty already.

Of course, in order to stimulate desire, there must be some (artificial) “barriers”. So there’s some version of age limit – like a couple of years after menarche. Everyone is there consensually; have participants sign a disclaimer.

(I wager that early sex will be relatively rare as there will be other ways to feel good -like going into oxytocin/serotonin flow-state while creating beauty with one’s hands).

What is nice about it –with young and old smooching together, In the souk kingdom, intimacy is normalized. Let it be between all couples- doesn’t matter their gender- or ages- or sexes even. In time, we’ll get over any “ick” factor. Preferences are personality-driven.

While it is tempting to assume that “everyone well adjusted should desire xyz” in a mate, there will always be individual dynamics- those who desire another with significant age difference, or appearance, or something ‘not of the norm’. Let it be; it isn’t for another to judge.

L’Ove is L’Ove. Everything serves. Extremes of behavior are driven by, among other things, naming, marginalization, and repression which until now, certain churches make their specialty.

Normalizing stuff reduces the pressure to “prove” themselves a certain way- besides, most will be “proving themselves” tangibly in many other (even more constructive) ways as a result of their souk adult community awards’ ceremonies!

Over time, relations will thaw between men and wo(e)-man/ wo(mb)-man and deepen without effort at all. due to ongoing (tangible) means of gaining respect and obtaining status.

With that there will be less need for ‘extremes’ of taboo activity. Each person wearing and using more of there own handicraft clothes will seem less unusual. It’ll make people watching even more fun – and Norman Rockwell at the same time. Yes, life can be this way.

But admittedly that’s only a guess as we haven’t had such an atmosphere (other than in China).

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Today in 2026 there are still kingdoms where marrying young girls – and having sex with them is still the norm if you’re a wealthy man.

Marriage then can hardly be called consensual when you’re a young entirely unskilled teen (if even) with have 70+ years ahead of you.

As a result, entire populations of wo(e)-man have been put into (abusive) sexual servitude- as have their mothers, their grandmothers, and their great-grandmothers. They don’t know any other life.Their soma learns this power dynamic starting in utero. Until now, their language and behaviors perpetuate it.

As westerners we call this “pedophilia”, and yet, in most of the Middle East, it’s ingrained and normal. Never given a chance to bloom, fully half the population is stunted – the other half a version of predator.

While I have no idea of “cures” for this, hopefully as girls and their mothers realize they do have a creative future- beyond being a temporary baby-making machine- and fathers realize their status improves when their happy skillful daughters create tangible legacy, perhaps he might not so willingly sell her off. We’ll see.

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Likewise, along the vein of powerful people wishing to take their activities to secluded spaces, like distant islands and ranches, let there be special souk-subspecialty-themed ~sex retreats.

Singles and couples alike can meet those with strong similar preferences and inclinations. They could mix it in with important ‘updates’ – like our medical conferences now.

Sexy models from eastern Europe, could help move things along all paid the going wage of any facilitator trained in…skillful arts. As it happens, they are divas at domestic arts; their inculcation exemplary (or used to be- check out the sisters that didn’t come along! There time has come to travel too!)

There’d be mornings for souk- specialty demonstrations and new practices, with loads of sex in the afternoon and swing and tango dancing at night. I bet it would be fun!

Whether or not they choose to ‘enhance’ things, is completely their business. But already more normalized, I’ll bet there’s less need for strong drugs and alcohol!

There I’ve said it. This is a much less dystopic picture than Margaret Atwood’s!

Everything is Inshallah- but man, and wo(mb)-man/ wo(e)-man have G-d-given free will. Give them a chance to exercise it.