1. Wherever you are now, you’re in the right place to start from for your personal journey to create a self with ~ at least a couple of layers – with filling, frosting and ornate toppings. Believe in your self. Under your skin is a shining white light being.
2. Ignore naysayers- keep sensitive plans and hopes to yourself ; some things shouldn’t even be shared with parents- they see you according to their lens in life. Try to align with an elder dispassionate person who doesn’t really care – their comments are golden.
3. Read course descriptions carefully- consider what you might know after completing it. Follow your interests- take at least one wild elective when available. As a writer I l’Oved notetaking. Forces one to linearize thoughts. undoubtedly your instructor has references or a manual- what they’re teaching they’ve chosen from a ~huge selection considering the scope and depth of any profession – which continuously expand. Whatever you get from your courses is the right amount for you.
4. relationships will come when you have value to offer. Be their ‘sprinkle’, rather than to add sweet. Don’t make their cupcake- perfect your own recipe. (I got this wonderful analogy on Facebook!)
5. Wherever you are now is perfect. You’re made through and through. You can push matter. Opportunity for gaining excellence will come when you’re ready. follow your heart. Use your hands.
6. Your boss needs you for his/her own designs- this will only take you so far. until you’re your own boss do the best job they imagine. Observe and learn from everyone.
7. Keep a five year diary about notable events from the day. Write out all challenging scenarios and events- you’ll see them in a different light with maturity. Then write them out according to the ‘others’ – who belong to their own collectives.
8. Burning ideas is energizing- will bring you more of the same.Bury them maybe- where you can find them. Eventually you’ll understand their blessings in disguise.
9. When judged- while yes you did ‘trigger’ it, know it really isn’t personal- your boss or judge has no or little idea of what you’re actually capable. Neither do you!
10. Likewise, Don’t sweat report cards. If you’re struggling, you’re mismatched. when you l’Ove what you’re doing you’ll ‘walk on water’. pitfalls and delays- causing emotions won’t really matter. you’ll get easy “A”. Honestly!!!
11. Not everyone is meant to serve- some are leaders at heart. They don’t ‘do’ servant well – they have to l’earn – needs be worth their while. They can come off as “bitchy”, “aloof”, etc. Honor they’re in a different place than you. They learned to stand up – and that isn’t easy. They appreciate it when you do too.
12. Light beings – those taller and lighter than you sometimes get special deferments. These beings personally brighten up the area- even if they don’t otherwise distinguish themselves. When you’re in your element you will outshine them. Take everything in stride.
13. Notice which chores you like – do those with flourish; those you hate do efficiently. Do the fun ones interspersed. There are good days and bad days for organizing. Check where Mercury is in your astrology chart. Have fun with your fortes!
14. leave relationships on good terms- keep your conscience clear. Others who “wrong” you will always meet their match- someone their equal. Karma always keeps tabs on you- so Only spend time with those who honor you- as you do them. maintain your dignity.
15. Your body is both garden and temple. It ~always grows back when nicely treated.
16. Read, travel expand your vocabulary and horizons. Become discoverer and explorer. try new things! Take a language! Use your tongue in a new way.
17. L’Ove is anything that supports and improves your Orphic egg of self. You are a creator G-d as is every living mitochondrial creature. All responds to sound, color, tones,textures and pranic intention. Plants and animals equally – even fungus and Archae.
18. You’re ‘meant’ to visit Gaia. You’d be amazed at the pieces your soul recalls in the process- go wherever your ‘called’. Do your own Hajj. All of Gaia is sacred – She just needs reminding.
19. Blessings!
20. When you’re ready you might meet your twin flame. You’ll ‘bob’ together in Gaia’s metamorphic field! Then you’ll be in for a ride. Meanwhile find yourself. Go wherever you’re called! Be fearless and friendly.
21. For more check out: https://drjenwyman-clemons.com/2023/07/27/keys-to-the-spiral-path/

As to how to make your cupcake – you need flour, leavening, oil, ‘egg’ (ego), and some liquid. You’ll need to know how to bake a basic cake – some sweet fluffy treat that holds together after being baked in a form. Loved as it is, so to speak (we’re talking about your corpus of being). After letting them cool on a rack (we’ve detached from other’s unconditional support and expectations for a period) during which time our cake will cool and settle. (We aren’t so full of ourselves but confident we’re making strides – and are basically palatable).

But why stop there? We’re even more delicious with fillings and frosting. What flavor did you make your cupcake- that might point you in a direction. Do you like custard? Whipped cream? You get to choose!

Everyone chooses differently if they knew how easy cupcakes are to make – and flavorings possible- like almond, vanilla, or something exotic.

Then there’s the icing or frosting. I love buttercream. Maybe you like chocolate or strawberry possibilities are nearly endless. (Don’t stop with your bachelor’s keep taking new courses. Get specialty experience)

Once you have your cupcake all frosted, it’s time to add some decorations. Excel at something that others will pay for for example. Then when you’re amongst all the other cupcakes, you’ll be more easily distinguished – for the ones most aligned with you and your tastes and choices. Which makes life a whole lot more fun. You can debate the silliest stuff – while you are together (which is really the whole point, from Gaia’s perspective).