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Love, L-O-V-E, is a sensation of coherence experienced when Vau, our inner heart’s being, is aligned and strong- with another’s heart chakra- be it baby or lover. Love is sparked by locality- being in a physical room together- and touch is involved.
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L-O-V-E is Lamed- Samech (ס for O) shape but in English, “O” is from Teth ט and Vau ו – Vau again- followed by silent ‘E’ for change- as love always does, as we mature.
What is love anyway really? Let’s look at the letters, individually for clues of intention.
Lamed leads the way as we resonate with our heart’s (subconscious) ‘dream’ -the (seeming) appearance of our beloved ‘looking’ like our picture perfect other. With this we discern a passionate commonality- here “judgment” is entailed- no matter how we ‘try’ to override. We might assume how they got where they are reflects one’s values. Judging one to be similar, when they may not be in reality.
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Feeling “(w)hol(e)” with another is the energy of Samech ס. In Kabbalah, is path of alchemical creation requiring time and attention- and chemistry- as chemicals are very much involved.
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Vau ו (with Zain ז)- as we hu(e)-man’s are also both, reigns with Cheth’s ח discipline, which keeps one’s inner Huppa tent lifted.
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With another’s love, which is experienced depending on which other chakra’s are involved, ego, or I AM, the dual self, is re-inforced with sense of unity and purpose.
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Reinforcement of ego, or I AM, is not of the IAM, wholeness within.
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For that you need heart’s engagement- and inner heart space. No wonder “YAM” is the Vedic seed sound for Anahata![1]
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Love is what moves one to improve and grow. “How” you express your love language, whether sweet or tough, depends on if (or when) your sacred wisdoms were parsed or torn or if treated as “unhelpful” and better ignored.
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Light filling our Vau ו self, eases changes especially as we learn to forgive, let go, and release the peccadilloes that plague our personal harmony.
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Our experience of love is entirely subjective- I have no idea what it feels like in you. Like a vitamin, love reassures us that someone does care- to them, we are real and we are meaningful.
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Did you know, babies by design are closest to their mothers physically and emotionally. The intimacy of father isn’t automatic. Father’s is known by their effect on the mother. And by their verbal and physical demonstrations with individual child, after they are born. It is on them to create relationship.
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AS creatures of nature, our soma thrives with love, until that is, our love object falls short and becomes hu(e)-man and fallible. This is illusion and is more me- than you.
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E stands for change, which though not seen or heard, is inevitable.
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L-OVE Is Yod’s reflection (as Lamed) manifest in ‘Her’ orphic egg, OVE.
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Our ability to (stand) being with each other- so we can be ‘we will’, or we’ll, requires us to be flexible with changes wrought by age and time.
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When power- the ability to work with enduring intensity- is wed with Love, our WOW! is engaged. We have courage to step forward and make a difference in the world.
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Tangible results ensue. Harmony in a life amplifies, the more we nurture it.
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Words make a huge difference to each other individually. Words create butterfly effects, which can extend even from the “idle by-stander”.
Words have potential to trigger tsunami reactions, over which you have no control.
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Tell yourself, out loud, several times a day, “I love you”. Try it for a while, just because maybe you’ll get an, “I love you too” back.
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The word “love” alone is onomatopoetic balm as are words Amour and Liebe, and many similar.
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Speak pleasantly, as if to your 3 year-old self, who understands exactly what you mean.
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Seeing everyone as a light-being –which they technically are -if we were to remember under their skin is a smooth white fascia plane enveloping their entire body, including us when we act like jerks, may help to lengthen a fuse.
Literally there is an immaculate white subliminal self under each and every one of us! Even those you fear.
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The more you can control your mouth, the more power you will have – giving you more freedom and safety. Isn’t that what you want?
[1] Toning the seed sounds LAM, VAM, RAM, YAM, HAM, (silence) OM, very slowly, is good medicine for one’s physical chakras. Notice where you feel them while saying.
